Full disclosure: I do not have/have never had gender dysphoria. Though I’ve done my best research, if anything is inaccurate or insensitive, please correct me.
TW for mental health/self-harm.
– If Nico worries that she is a man and is just actually crazy, and she wants reassurance that she is a woman, Itori is probably the best person she can talk to. Itori listens, provides wine, and insists that Nico is her sister.
– If Nico just wants to vent, Uta is best. He’ll listen and say nothing. It’s great.
– Roma isn’t good at comfort, but, at one point, she got Donato to assure Nico that she is not going to hell.
– This may be why Nico liked Yamori. He hurt her in places she wanted to hurt herself. And made her feel reassured that she is feminine.
– Souta was actually the one who told Nico to “fucking stop with the crazy boyfriends” and to accept herself as she was. Well, everyone had, but Souta telling her commanded Nico’s attention, because he’s usually not one for doling out advice.
– She definitely brightens up after a day shopping for clothing with Itori and Roma.
Mercy and Magic 